
DATING DONE GOD'S WAY with TOLU FALODE
DATING DONE GOD'S WAY with TOLU FALODEFamily, Marriage & ParentingI'm Tolu : your Christian Dating Coach! I help you attract your husband by changing the way you date! I share exactly what you need to do to step into your own godly marriage
Episodes
256- · 21 minEpisode 256 - HOW TO DATE WHEN YOU HAVE A SUCCESSFUL CAREER
HOW TO DATE WHEN YOU HAVE A SUCCESSFUL CAREER You’ve spent years building your career. You’ve worked hard, grown professionally and achieved goals you once set for yourself. But when it comes to dating and marriage, you feel like you’re starting from scratch. Between work commitments and your personal responsibilities, finding time to date can be difficult. You may also be unsure where to meet quality men or how to approach dating without taking your focus away from everything else you’ve built. In this episode, we discuss how to approach dating intentionally while maintaining a successful career. You’ll learn why your current lifestyle may be limiting your dating opportunities and what you can start doing differently to create room for a healthy relationship. Because you can be intentional about your career and your marriage goals at the same time. Want personal guidance with your dating and marriage goals? Work with me 1-1 and get a personalised plan to help you move from single to married within a year. Click the link in below to book a call 👇🏾 bit.ly/datingtomarryapply
- · 15 minEpisode 255 - The Reason Your Relationships Keep Ending at 3 Months
Why do your relationships keep ending around the three-month mark? In this episode, Tolu Falode shares why your relationships may not be progressing beyond the first few months and the changes you need to make to build a relationship that leads to marriage. If you’re tired of experiencing short-lived relationships and want to understand how to approach dating differently, this episode is for you. Work with me 1-1 to go from single to married in a year. Click the link below to book a call 👇🏾 bit.ly/datingtomarryapply I’ll share the exact steps to take you from single to married in a year. Questions? Send me a DM.
- · 20 minEpisode 254 - Dating for 6 Months and He Still Won’t Define the Relationship
You’ve been dating for over 6 months, spending time together and building a connection, but he still won’t define the relationship. How long are you supposed to keep dating someone who hasn’t made his intentions clear? And what do you need to do to change your current relationship experience? In this episode, I’m sharing what you need to understand about dating without clarity and how to make intentional decisions about the relationship you’re in. If you want personalised guidance to help you navigate dating and work towards marriage, apply for my private 1-1 coaching program. Click the link below to apply 👇🏾 https://bit.ly/dtmmakover
- · 24 minEpisode 253 - Almost 40 and Still Single? What Needs to Change Before 2027 | Christian Dating Advice
You’ve prayed for marriage for years. You’ve trusted God, worked on yourself, and waited patiently, but you’re still single. Now, as 2027 approaches, you may be wondering what needs to change for you to finally experience the marriage you desire. In this episode, we’re talking about Christian dating, prolonged singleness, and why marriage may not have happened yet, even after years of prayer. If you’re a single Christian woman approaching 40, or you’re tired of watching the years go by without meeting the man you can confidently build a marriage with, this conversation is for you. Discover why prayer alone may not be enough without intentional action, what you may need to approach differently in your dating life, and how to become more visible to the kind of godly man you want to marry. You don’t have to keep repeating the same dating patterns and hoping for a different outcome. With the right guidance, intentionality, and a clear dating strategy, you can approach your next season of singleness differently. READY TO WORK WITH ME ONE-ON-ONE? If you’re a single Christian woman who is ready to move from singleness toward marriage, apply to work with me privately. I’ll help you identify what needs to change and develop a more intentional approach to dating for marriage. Apply using the link below to book a call and find out how we can work together. https://bit.ly/dtmmakover #ChristianDating #SingleChristianWomen #DatingToMarry #ChristianMarriage #FindingAHusband
- · 24 minEpisode 252 - Want to Get Married in a Year? Work With Me 1-1 | Christian Dating & Marriage
Are you a single Christian woman who desires marriage but is tired of trying to figure out dating on your own? If you’re ready to stop guessing your way through dating and start approaching it with a clear plan, this episode is for you In this episode, I’m sharing how we work together inside my private 1-1 Dating To Marry coaching program to help you move towards engagement and marriage within 12 months This is personalised coaching for Christian women who are serious about marriage and want more than general dating advice When you work with me, we focus on your individual dating situation, your relationship goals, and the practical steps you need to take to meet suitable men and build a relationship that can lead to marriage Here’s what working with me includes: • Weekly 60-minute private coaching sessions where we work through your dating journey, challenges and next steps • A personalised dating strategy designed around your circumstances, the kind of husband you desire and your marriage goals • Direct WhatsApp access to me so you can get guidance as you navigate real-life dating situations and make important relationship decisions • Personal support throughout the dating process to help you assess potential partners, strengthen your discernment and date intentionally You don’t have to keep approaching dating without a plan or trying to apply advice that doesn’t address your personal situation If you’re ready to take a more intentional approach to finding a husband, I invite you to explore working with me privately Want to work with me 1-1? Visit the link in below to book a call and apply https://bit.ly/dtmmakover
- · 34 minEpisode 251 - Over 35 and Still Waiting for Marriage? Let’s Talk About What Needs to Change
You’re over 35 and still single? In this live video training, we’re talking about why you’re still single and the changes you can make to move towards the right relationship. I’ll also share how you can work with me inside Wife In Waiting, my 6 month Group Coaching Program designed to help you get into the right relationship in 6 months for marriage in a year. Ready to take the next step? Click the link below to apply for Wife In Waiting. https://bit.ly/datelikeawifereview Have questions? Send me a DM.
- · 10 minEpisode 250 - YOU’RE MEETING MEN BUT NO DATES? LISTEN
YOU’RE MEETING MEN BUT NO DATES? You’re getting matches, having conversations, and men are approaching you; but somehow, things aren’t moving forward. In this episode, we’re breaking down why your conversations may not be turning into actual dates, where the momentum could be dying, and what you can do differently to move from talking to intentional dating. If you’re ready to date to marry and want guidance through the dating process, Wife In Waiting is designed to help you do exactly that. Join Wife In Waiting below: https://bit.ly/datelikeawifereview
- · 6 minEpisode 249 - HOW GOD SPEAKS ABOUT YOUR HUSBAND THROUGH DREAMS
SUBSCRIBE AND SHARE WITH A SISTER FRIEND IN THIS EPISODE I’M SHARING ON: GOD SPEAKS ABOUT YOUR HUSBAND THROUGH DREAMS What do your dreams have to do with your future husband and your marriage? If you receive revelation through dreams, it is important to understand how to recognize the significance of those dreams and how they may relate to what God is saying about your marriage In this episode, we talk about why dreams can carry significance and how you can begin to pay attention to the revelations you receive concerning your husband and your future marriage You will also learn why understanding what God is saying matters when you are believing Him for marriage and preparing for the relationship He has for you If you are a single Christian woman trusting God for marriage, this is an episode you want to listen to carefully And if you are ready to take intentional steps toward marriage, Wife In Waiting is my 6 month group coaching program for single Christian women over 30 who want to get into the right relationship for marriage Listen to the full episode and share it with another woman who needs to hear this Link is below to register 400 women registered and counting Seats are limited REGISTER HERE: https://us02web.zoom.us/meeting/register/5sWMDi57QVaYzgL37vaapg
- · 8 minEPISODE 248 - WHY MEN KEEP LEAVING YOU BEFORE YOU REALIZE THEY WERE NEVER THE RIGHT FIT
If men keep leaving you, you need to look at your vetting process You may be spending months getting to know men who were never the right fit for you in the first place And by the time you realize it, you’ve already invested your time, emotions and energy into another relationship that was never going to lead to marriage In this episode, we talk about why vetting matters and how learning to identify the right fit earlier can completely change the way you date You’ll also learn why better vetting can help you spend less time dating men you could never marry and become more intentional about the relationships you give your time to Want to learn more? Join my free webinar BE PURSUED BY YOUR FUTURE HUSBAND IN 6 MONTHS I’ll be sharing exactly what needs to change for you to start dating your husband and be in the right relationship in 6 months It is happening in 4 days | 6:30 PM WAT Register here: https://us02web.zoom.us/meeting/register/5sWMDi57QVaYzgL37vaapg Wife In Waiting opens right after the webinar Wife In Waiting is my 6 month group coaching program where I work closely with you to help you date intentionally, make better relationship decisions and get into the right relationship for marriage Register for the free webinar here: https://us02web.zoom.us/meeting/register/5sWMDi57QVaYzgL37vaapg
- · 12 minEpisode 247 - MEETING MATURE SINGLE CHRISTIAN MEN AS A WOMAN OVER 35
SUBSCRIBE AND SHARE WITH A SISTER FRIEND IN THIS EPISODE I’M SHARING ON: MEETING MATURE SINGLE CHRISTIAN MEN AS A WOMAN OVER 35 You need to apply skill and strategy at this stage because it is no longer about waiting and hoping and praying It is about strategy and skill - in prayer and practically This is what I have shared in the LIVE TRAINING In the BE PURSUED BY YOUR FUTURE HUSBAND IN 6 MONTHS WEBINAR I'm breaking it down in more detail : The webinar is free to attend - it is holding October 1 - 6:30 pm BST / 1:30 pm ET Link is below to register 300 women registered and counting Seats are limited REGISTER HERE: https://us02web.zoom.us/meeting/register/5sWMDi57QVaYzgL37vaapg
- · 9 minEpisode 246 - HOW TALKING TO MEN LEADS YOU TO YOUR HUSBAND
SUBSCRIBE AND SHARE WITH A SISTER FRIEND IN THIS EPISODE I’M SHARING ON: HOW TALKING TO MEN LEADS YOU TO YOUR HUSBAND It'll make it faster for you to know the men that you connect with Simpler to hear when God is talking to you And bring you closer to marriage - because your husband is a man and you're making speaking to men part of your routine This is why in the BE PURSUED BY YOUR HUSBAND webinar I'm breaking down exactly how to do this I'll be sharing the strategies I've used to get my clients married every year By changing the way they talk and connect to men To bring them closer to their husbands Click the link below 👇🏾 to register for the BE PURSUED BY YOUR HUSBAND WEBINAR It's on October 3 - 1:30 pm ET: 6:30 pm BST Seats are limited and I'm breaking down the steps that will lead you to your husband in 6 months REGISTER HERE: https://us02web.zoom.us/meeting/register/5sWMDi57QVaYzgL37vaapg
- · 16 minEpisode 245 - How To Approach Men Without Looking Crazy
SUBSCRIBE AND SHARE WITH A SISTER FRIEND IN THIS EPISODE I’M SHARING ON: How to approach men without looking crazy To work with me 1-1 to go from single to married in a year Click the link below to book a call 👇🏾: https://app.acuityscheduling.com/schedule.php?owner=13406328&appointmentType=94248425
- · 42 minEpisode 244 - ATTRACTING YOUR HUSBAND IN A MALE DOMINATED ROLE
SUBSCRIBE AND SHARE WITH A SISTER FRIEND IN THIS EPISODE I’M SHARING ON: What it looks like to attract your husband in a male dominated role To work with me 1-1 to go from single to married in a year: Click the link below to book a call 👇🏾: https://app.acuityscheduling.com/schedule.php?owner=13406328&appointmentType=94248425
- · 27 minEpisode 243 - The REAL Reason He Pulled Away From You
SUBSCRIBE AND SHARE WITH A SISTER FRIEND IN THIS EPISODE I’M SHARING ON: Why he pulled away from you and stopped talking to you What changed in the connection Why the relationship didn't move forward To work with me 1-1: Click the link below to book a call 👇🏾: https://app.acuityscheduling.com/schedule.php?owner=13406328&appointmentType=94248425
- · 27 minEpisode 242 - Meet Your Husband In 90 Days
SUBSCRIBE AND SHARE WITH A SISTER FRIEND IN THIS EPISODE I’M SHARING ON: How to meet your husband in 90 days The strategies that have gotten my clients married in a year To work with me 1-1: Click the link below to book a call 👇🏾: https://app.acuityscheduling.com/schedule.php?owner=13406328&appointmentType=94248425
- · 36 minEpisode 241 - HOW DO I GET MARRIED IN A YEAR
SUBSCRIBE AND SHARE WITH A SISTER FRIEND IN THIS EPISODE I’M SHARING ON: How to go from single to married in a year What you need to do to meet your husband in one year with simple practical steps Ready to work with me to get married in a year? Click the link below to book a call 👇🏾: https://app.acuityscheduling.com/schedule.php?owner=13406328&appointmentType=94248425
- · 56 minEpisode 240 - 4 REASONS YOU ARE ONLY VISIBLE TO TIME WASTERS AND NOT PROVIDERS
SUBSCRIBE AND SHARE WITH A SISTER FRIEND IN THIS EPISODE I’M SHARING ON: Why you're not attracting providers To work with me inside Wife In Waiting Click this link in join: https://selar.com/wifeinwaitingprogram
- · 1h 29mEpisode 239 - 5 VISIBILITY MISTAKES LEADING YOU TO THE WRONG RELATIONSHIP
SUBSCRIBE AND SHARE WITH A SISTER FRIEND IN THIS EPISODE I’M SHARING ON: Why visibility has led you to the wrong men What you need to shift to start meeting men you can actively marry PS: Doors to my Wife In Waiting 6 months Group Coaching Program open July 20 - August 2 This is my 6 months Group Coaching Program that shows single Christian women over 30 how to get into the right relationship in 6 months for marriage in a year Every year our clients get married C We open from July 20 right after the Wife In Waiting Prayer Convention to August 2. PS: Have you registered for the Wife In Waiting Prayer Convention? Click the link below to register and make sure to invite a sister friend Register here for the prayer convention: https://bit.ly/prayersformarriage2026
- · 1h 1mEpisode 238 - 7 Reasons You're Not Visible to Your Future Husband.m4a
SUBSCRIBE AND SHARE WITH A SISTER FRIEND IN THIS EPISODE I’M SHARING ON: I break down the 7 reasons you're not visible to your future husband I'm sharing the exact steps that are keeping you single and unavailable to be found This is EPISODE 3 in the BE VISIBLE TO YOUR HUSBAND IN 30 DAYS series Make sure to check out Episodes 1 and 2 in the previous lives If you're a single Christian woman over 30 that is ready to be in the right relationship in 6 months - then the Wife In Waiting Program is for you This is my 6 month Group Coaching Program that shows single Christian women over 30 how to get into the right relationship in 6 months for marriage in a year You can join Wife In Waiting either with the full investment for 6 months which comes with 1-1 coaching calls monthly where we close any dating apps you have and you have access to the group or you can join monthly where you have access to the group coaching twice a month (for 2 hours), our private community where I give you feedback on dating and a dating curriculum that breaks down the exact strategies to move from single to the right relationship in 6 months We open from July 20 right after the Wife In Waiting Prayer Convention to August 2. PS: Have you registered for the Wife In Waiting Prayer Convention? Click the link below to register and make sure to invite a sister friend Register here for the prayer convention: https://bit.ly/prayersformarriage2026
- · 1h 14mEpisode 237 - 5 REASONS YOUR VISIBILITY DOESN'T KEEP MEN AROUND
SUBSCRIBE AND SHARE WITH A SISTER FRIEND IN THIS EPISODE I’M SHARING ON: Why visibility isn't working for you This EPISODE is for you if: You find your relationships with men don't last You're not getting any male attention You get ghosted by men all the time Watch and share with a sister friend I have a challenge inside the video as well for you to exercise visibility right now PS: Have you registered for the Wife In Waiting Prayer Convention? Click the link below to register and make sure to invite a sister friend Register here for the prayer convention: https://bit.ly/prayersformarriage2026